The Big Chill

450 00:41:23,689 --> 00:41:27,557 No, I did not say that, Molly. I said we'll see. 451 00:41:29,529 --> 00:41:32,150 I don't have to explain it, young lady. 452 00:41:33,825 --> 00:41:37,774 I want you to do it because I said so. Understand? 453 00:41:41,917 --> 00:41:44,455 When you're a mother you can be mean. 454 00:41:47,464 --> 00:41:50,998 All right, you can do that. Tell Carmelina I said it's okay. 455 00:41:51,384 --> 00:41:54,468 I love you, sweetheart. Daddy will call you later. 456 00:41:55,930 --> 00:41:58,848 Sometimes I don't believe what I hear myself saying. 457 00:42:13,532 --> 00:42:16,651 <i>So you came back from Vietnam...</i> 458 00:42:16,952 --> 00:42:19,277 <i>a changed man.</i> 459 00:42:19,912 --> 00:42:22,829 <i>Well, why don't you just tell everybody?</i> 460 00:42:23,207 --> 00:42:25,080 <i>Then, in 1972...</i> 461 00:42:25,334 --> 00:42:27,493 <i>you returned to the University of Michigan...</i> 462 00:42:27,712 --> 00:42:29,788 <i>to enter the doctoral program in psychology.</i> 463 00:42:30,047 --> 00:42:33,879 <i>But you couldn't seem to finish that dissertation.</i> 464 00:42:34,176 --> 00:42:38,637 <i>I could have. I chose not to.</i> 465 00:42:38,889 --> 00:42:41,973 <i>I'm not hung up on this completion thing.</i> 466 00:42:42,225 --> 00:42:44,978 <i>Then you had many jobs, all of which you quit.</i> 467 00:42:45,229 --> 00:42:48,812 <i>What are you getting at? I was evolving.</i> 468 00:42:49,066 --> 00:42:51,189 I'm still evolving. 469 00:42:52,528 --> 00:42:55,612 But your real fame came as a radio psychologist... 470 00:42:55,864 --> 00:42:58,072 on KSFO in San Francisco. 471 00:42:58,868 --> 00:43:02,451 I wouldn't call it fame exactly. I had a small... 472 00:43:02,788 --> 00:43:04,911 deeply disturbed following. 473 00:43:06,167 --> 00:43:07,625 What are you doing... 474 00:43:08,669 --> 00:43:09,618 now? 475 00:43:09,878 --> 00:43:13,959 Or I should say, what have you evolved into now? 476 00:43:16,761 --> 00:43:18,718 Oh, I'm in sales. 477 00:43:19,096 --> 00:43:20,922 What are you selling? 478 00:43:22,849 --> 00:43:24,640 I don't have to answer that. 479 00:43:26,102 --> 00:43:27,513 We're leaving. Have you seen Chloe? 480 00:43:27,770 --> 00:43:29,764 We're on the air here. 481 00:43:31,441 --> 00:43:32,473 Sorry. 482 00:43:34,277 --> 00:43:35,772 Sorry, pal. Got to go. 483 00:43:36,029 --> 00:43:37,571 Just answer that last question. 484 00:43:37,781 --> 00:43:39,987 I said, "I've got to go." 485 00:43:53,505 --> 00:43:54,826 So what happened to your partner? 486 00:43:55,006 --> 00:43:57,295 He wasn't my partner. He had the idea for the club. 487 00:43:57,592 --> 00:44:00,380 He's out of it now. We weren't conducive. 488 00:44:00,638 --> 00:44:03,971 We got together and hypered each other into a frenzy. 489 00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,090 His wife left for a younger woman, he couldn't make love. 490 00:44:07,352 --> 00:44:10,436 He was hospitalized for being such a nerd. 491 00:44:12,190 --> 00:44:13,732 So he's out of it? 492 00:44:13,983 --> 00:44:17,234 Yeah, he's out. It's just me, looking for investors. 493 00:44:17,488 --> 00:44:22,314 Alex and I made love the night before he died. It was fantastic. 494 00:44:25,327 --> 00:44:28,364 He went out with a bang, not a whimper. 495 00:44:31,793 --> 00:44:33,869 They're either married or gay. 496 00:44:34,128 --> 00:44:37,497 If they're not gay, they've broken up with the most wonderful woman... 497 00:44:37,757 --> 00:44:41,291 or they've broken up with a bitch who looks like me. 498 00:44:41,927 --> 00:44:46,092 They're in transition from a monogamous relationship and need space. 499 00:44:46,391 --> 00:44:49,427 Or they're tired of space, but can't commit. 500 00:44:49,727 --> 00:44:52,135 Or they want to commit but are afraid to get close. 501 00:44:52,438 --> 00:44:55,474 They want to get close and you don't want them near. 502 00:44:55,775 --> 00:44:57,352 Can't be that bad. 503 00:44:57,651 --> 00:44:58,896 You don't know. 504 00:44:59,487 --> 00:45:02,405 I've been out there dating for 20 years. 505 00:45:02,657 --> 00:45:06,275 I know in the first 15 seconds if there's a chance in the world. 506 00:45:06,536 --> 00:45:08,409 At least you're giving them a fair shot. 507 00:45:08,663 --> 00:45:12,079 Easy for you to say. Married to Harold, the perfect man. 508 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,335 Sometimes I think I don't want a man anymore. 509 00:45:16,588 --> 00:45:19,505 So here I sit on my ticking biological clock. 510 00:45:19,758 --> 00:45:24,881 The only thing I've known my entire life is that I want to have a child. 511 00:45:25,971 --> 00:45:29,553 Don't remind me. It was the right thing to do at the time. 512 00:45:29,891 --> 00:45:31,766 So what do you do? 513 00:45:35,689 -...