We Live in Time

I'm... I'm the powerful one. 437 00:35:31,130 --> 00:35:33,132 I do like the chocolate chip ones. 438 00:35:34,717 --> 00:35:37,595 Mashed potatoes are great when you're hungover. They're great for... 439 00:35:37,678 --> 00:35:38,679 No, no, no. 440 00:35:38,763 --> 00:35:41,515 Are you sure? Do you want me to... Hold on. You've got, like, one... 441 00:35:41,599 --> 00:35:44,060 Thank you. That's what was in my eye. 442 00:35:45,102 --> 00:35:47,772 Actually, that's not true. 443 00:35:49,398 --> 00:35:51,442 A lot of it was decidedly unhappy. 444 00:35:53,027 --> 00:35:57,073 We were starting to maybe think about children. 445 00:36:00,034 --> 00:36:04,747 Then she got a position in Sweden, which was... 446 00:36:06,457 --> 00:36:09,001 great for her. 447 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:14,215 So then we discussed it and then we tried it, me here, her there, 448 00:36:14,298 --> 00:36:16,425 both of us going back and forth depending. 449 00:36:17,885 --> 00:36:21,430 And then eventually, she just said, oh, she didn't want to do that anymore. 450 00:36:24,266 --> 00:36:25,518 I'm sorry. 451 00:36:31,607 --> 00:36:35,528 Adrienne really wanted us to start thinking about family. 452 00:36:38,698 --> 00:36:40,032 What did... What did you want? 453 00:36:41,617 --> 00:36:43,452 Um, I... 454 00:36:45,788 --> 00:36:47,456 I guess there's a world where... 455 00:36:48,916 --> 00:36:50,459 Kids aren't really my thing. 456 00:36:53,671 --> 00:36:54,672 Come on. 457 00:36:56,090 --> 00:36:59,301 I'm gonna make you the tastiest eggs of your life. 458 00:37:00,803 --> 00:37:01,929 Right. 459 00:37:02,012 --> 00:37:05,808 Do you know the best way to crack an egg? 460 00:37:08,310 --> 00:37:10,062 Always on a flat surface. 461 00:37:13,482 --> 00:37:15,735 What's the thinking behind the two bowls? 462 00:37:16,902 --> 00:37:18,404 Practically speaking, 463 00:37:18,487 --> 00:37:22,825 it's much easier to fish out a broken shell from the one egg 464 00:37:22,908 --> 00:37:25,703 rather than fishing it out from eight eggs. 465 00:37:25,786 --> 00:37:27,872 Mmm. 466 00:37:31,584 --> 00:37:35,504 The versatility of the egg knows no bounds. 467 00:37:59,737 --> 00:38:00,738 Oh. 468 00:39:21,485 --> 00:39:23,279 You said something to me, um... 469 00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:26,240 couple weeks ago. 470 00:39:30,369 --> 00:39:32,955 You said... You said kids aren't really your thing. 471 00:39:36,667 --> 00:39:39,003 That's fine. I mean, no. 472 00:39:39,086 --> 00:39:41,589 Of course it... Of course it is. Just, um... 473 00:39:44,091 --> 00:39:48,178 Truthfully, kids kind of might be, maybe, or... 474 00:39:49,763 --> 00:39:52,266 are my thing. 475 00:39:53,517 --> 00:39:54,768 And, um... 476 00:39:55,644 --> 00:39:58,397 At least I think they might be, anyway. 477 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,316 And I... I hate... 478 00:40:01,734 --> 00:40:03,903 Hate to even have to, um... 479 00:40:04,987 --> 00:40:06,867 It's just diff... It's just different, isn't it? 480 00:40:08,490 --> 00:40:10,701 You know, meeting someone at our age. 481 00:40:10,784 --> 00:40:14,079 Whether we like it or not, the clock is ticking. 482 00:40:14,163 --> 00:40:17,666 I'm sorry, but what the actual fuck are you even talking about right now? 483 00:40:18,667 --> 00:40:19,668 Well... 484 00:40:21,420 --> 00:40:22,755 It would seem to me preferable 485 00:40:22,838 --> 00:40:25,466 to have a moderately awkward conversation right now 486 00:40:25,549 --> 00:40:28,677 rather than a completely destructive one in five to ten years' time. 487 00:40:28,761 --> 00:40:32,056 Firstly, I'm 34, not fifty-fucking-five, 488 00:40:32,139 --> 00:40:34,308 so how about we ease the fuck up on... 489 00:40:34,391 --> 00:40:37,978 on the whole biological clock bullshit thing? 490 00:40:38,062 --> 00:40:39,563 And secondly, 491 00:40:40,814 --> 00:40:43,943 I don't know. I'm, like, "Back the fuck off." 492 00:40:45,444 --> 00:40:47,112 And calm the fuck down. 493 00:40:47,196 --> 00:40:48,476 What... What... What's the rush? 494 00:40:48,530 --> 00:40:50,074 Because I'm worried 495 00:40:50,741 --> 00:40:53,327 that's there's a very distinct and real possibility 496 00:40:53,410 --> 00:40:55,496 that I am about to fall in love with you. 497 00:41:04,630 --> 00:41:05,631 I'm sorry. 498 00:41:05,714 --> 00:41:09,176 I'm just not someone who's interested in making that kind of a promise. 499 00:41:12,930 --> 00:41:17,810 And in fact, there's this little bit of me that thinks "fuck you" for even asking. 500 00:42:20,956 --> 00:42:23,459 Hi. 501 00:42:26,545 --> 00:42:27,963 How was work? 502 00:42:30,049 --> 00:42:31,633 Uh... 503 00:42:31,717 --> 00:42:32,760 Yeah. 504 00:42:35,721 --> 00:42:39,308 - How was bedtime? - Yeah. It was fine. 505 00:42:39,391 --> 00:42:41,518 We read <i>Julian is a Mermaid.</i> 506 00:42:43,437 --> 00:42:46,106 A lot. 507 00:42:49,610 --> 00:42:51,403 So... 508 00:42:56,158 --> 00:42:57,993 You know, the day of your diagnosis... 509 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:01,4...