Otherhood

606 00:31:12,161 --> 00:31:14,205 I'm gonna give you an answer to that question, 607 00:31:14,289 --> 00:31:17,083 even though I don't think you'll understand it, 608 00:31:17,166 --> 00:31:18,668 and I don't think you deserve it. 609 00:31:18,751 --> 00:31:20,753 -I'm telling you I don't deserve it. -Okay. 610 00:31:21,212 --> 00:31:23,214 -You don't have to. -You don't fix the egg. 611 00:31:23,298 --> 00:31:25,508 It doesn't matter who twisted it, it's broken. 612 00:31:25,592 --> 00:31:26,885 And you gotta let it go. 613 00:31:26,968 --> 00:31:30,346 And once you've truly bid that egg farewell, you'll... 614 00:31:30,638 --> 00:31:31,973 you'll find a new egg. 615 00:31:34,017 --> 00:31:34,851 Thank you. 616 00:31:35,435 --> 00:31:36,311 That was... 617 00:31:37,103 --> 00:31:38,646 I really need the check right now. 618 00:31:38,730 --> 00:31:41,357 I don't think I can hear about the egg anymore. I'm sorry. 619 00:31:41,441 --> 00:31:43,568 All right. I was gonna split the bill with you, 620 00:31:43,651 --> 00:31:45,320 but now I'm not so... 621 00:31:45,695 --> 00:31:46,529 thank you. 622 00:31:46,613 --> 00:31:48,573 Fair. Good luck with your egg hunt. 623 00:31:48,948 --> 00:31:49,782 Thank you. 624 00:31:54,203 --> 00:31:58,583 Well, I'm so glad we just finally get to sit down and have a meal together. 625 00:31:59,500 --> 00:32:00,335 And... 626 00:32:01,419 --> 00:32:04,380 Did I mention that Paul has never officially come out to me? 627 00:32:07,383 --> 00:32:08,509 Shame on you, Paul. 628 00:32:08,968 --> 00:32:11,846 You know, what is this bullshit about having to come out? 629 00:32:11,930 --> 00:32:15,475 It's not like straight people have to gather their families when they're 18 630 00:32:15,558 --> 00:32:19,312 and find a way to break it to them they're heterosexual, thank you, so... 631 00:32:19,395 --> 00:32:20,939 why is it any different for us? 632 00:32:21,481 --> 00:32:24,317 Why can't parents just see what they see 633 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,486 and figure it out for themselves? 634 00:32:27,111 --> 00:32:28,696 -It is not a sin. -No. 635 00:32:28,780 --> 00:32:31,491 And it is not something I need to confess. 636 00:32:32,700 --> 00:32:35,203 Shut up and tell her. She deserves the truth. 637 00:32:35,286 --> 00:32:37,497 Do it now! This is really good, Helen. 638 00:32:40,583 --> 00:32:42,168 -Mom. -Yeah? 639 00:32:43,044 --> 00:32:44,003 I'm gay. 640 00:32:45,004 --> 00:32:46,047 You're what? 641 00:32:46,589 --> 00:32:48,299 I support you and I love you! 642 00:32:50,593 --> 00:32:51,427 I'm happy. 643 00:32:51,511 --> 00:32:52,804 All right, kiss her already. 644 00:32:53,096 --> 00:32:54,514 -No! -I'm not gonna go kiss her. 645 00:32:54,597 --> 00:32:55,807 -Get up. -Kiss your mother. 646 00:32:55,890 --> 00:32:59,769 Walk over to your mother and kiss her the way you're supposed to. 647 00:32:59,852 --> 00:33:01,187 -Kiss. -Here I come. 648 00:33:02,981 --> 00:33:04,524 Beautiful. 649 00:33:05,858 --> 00:33:07,276 You just made my night. 650 00:33:08,069 --> 00:33:10,571 Now all you have to do is tell your father. 651 00:33:11,155 --> 00:33:12,949 I told him a long time ago. 652 00:33:13,825 --> 00:33:14,659 What? 653 00:33:16,035 --> 00:33:18,121 -I mean, a while ago. -How long ago? 654 00:33:19,747 --> 00:33:21,416 I don't know. A few years. 655 00:33:25,336 --> 00:33:27,338 Why did you tell him and not me? 656 00:33:28,881 --> 00:33:30,174 I figured you knew. 657 00:33:32,010 --> 00:33:33,094 So... 658 00:33:33,177 --> 00:33:36,514 So, I'm punished for being perceptive. 659 00:33:36,597 --> 00:33:40,018 I would like to know why he got to have the conversation and I didn't. 660 00:33:40,101 --> 00:33:43,271 Mom, you just forced me to come out to three men who know I'm gay. 661 00:33:43,354 --> 00:33:45,815 No way that this moment wasn't going to be about you. 662 00:33:45,898 --> 00:33:49,527 So, maybe this is the exact reason why. 663 00:33:49,944 --> 00:33:53,990 This has nothing to do with you coming out to me. It's just... 664 00:33:54,365 --> 00:33:56,034 It has nothing to do with that. 665 00:33:56,117 --> 00:33:59,328 This is about how you treat me and your father. 666 00:33:59,412 --> 00:34:01,956 I mean, is he always the one that is going to be-- 667 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:04,167 Mom, there is no you and my father. 668 00:34:04,459 --> 00:34:05,668 You're divorced! 669 00:34:07,670 --> 00:34:10,506 There is me and him, and there is me and you, 670 00:34:10,923 --> 00:34:12,717 but there is no you and him. 671 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,011 And I am not willing to be the you and the him, 672 00:34:15,094 --> 00:34:18,723 which is what you have always wanted, which is why you are blowing up now. 673 00:34:19,098 --> 00:34:22,351 There i