The Red Pill

786 00:42:04,815 --> 00:42:06,817 There's no way to quantify that. 787 00:42:07,026 --> 00:42:10,779 Or "I've lost a job opportunity because I'm a woman." 788 00:42:10,988 --> 00:42:14,366 There's no way to say, "I've suffered more than you" 789 00:42:14,575 --> 00:42:16,994 because you've lost a kid because you're a man. 790 00:42:17,203 --> 00:42:20,080 You know, we can't... But it is serious. 791 00:42:20,289 --> 00:42:23,709 And at least if... 792 00:42:23,918 --> 00:42:26,212 If you're denied a job because you're a woman, 793 00:42:26,420 --> 00:42:27,900 at least you can go to another company 794 00:42:28,005 --> 00:42:29,465 and apply for a job, you know? 795 00:42:29,673 --> 00:42:31,383 But you can't... When you lose your kid, 796 00:42:31,592 --> 00:42:33,594 you can't say, "okay, I'll get custody of that kid. 797 00:42:33,802 --> 00:42:35,596 I'll try for that one." 798 00:42:35,804 --> 00:42:38,182 It's a terrible thing that happens. 799 00:42:41,101 --> 00:42:43,854 There was a case... The serpico case. 800 00:42:47,191 --> 00:42:49,235 You might be too young to know the movie "serpico" 801 00:42:49,443 --> 00:42:50,963 - with al Pacino. - Yeah, I don't know. 802 00:42:51,028 --> 00:42:53,072 It was about a New York City undercover cop. 803 00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:54,681 He gets shot at the end of the movie 804 00:42:54,782 --> 00:42:56,283 and retires from the police force. 805 00:42:56,492 --> 00:42:58,869 And he was a real man, frank serpico. 806 00:42:59,078 --> 00:43:02,540 A woman, after the movie, after this was made, 807 00:43:02,748 --> 00:43:04,625 decided she wanted to become a single mother 808 00:43:04,833 --> 00:43:07,086 and tricked him into fathering a child. 809 00:43:07,294 --> 00:43:08,837 And the court accepted that, 810 00:43:09,046 --> 00:43:11,257 because she told her friends she was going to trick him 811 00:43:11,465 --> 00:43:12,985 and they testified, and the court said, 812 00:43:13,050 --> 00:43:14,885 "yes, you were tricked into it," 813 00:43:15,094 --> 00:43:19,139 and still awarded her over 90°/o of his police pension. 814 00:43:19,306 --> 00:43:21,227 So everything that he goes through in this movie, 815 00:43:21,433 --> 00:43:24,853 including getting shot, to earn his pension, 816 00:43:25,062 --> 00:43:28,857 she won by sleeping with him one night. 817 00:43:29,066 --> 00:43:30,859 My son's mom wanted to have children with me 818 00:43:31,068 --> 00:43:32,653 and I had always refused, 819 00:43:32,861 --> 00:43:34,863 you know, saying, "you have this anger problem. 820 00:43:35,072 --> 00:43:36,407 You need to get counseling. 821 00:43:36,615 --> 00:43:38,659 I'm not gonna consider having children with you 822 00:43:38,867 --> 00:43:40,494 until that's dealt with," 823 00:43:40,703 --> 00:43:42,913 'cause she would lose her temper almost every day, 824 00:43:43,122 --> 00:43:44,623 and just use any weapon she could. 825 00:43:44,832 --> 00:43:47,376 And, like, a child's the perfect weapon, 826 00:43:47,585 --> 00:43:49,086 so I was really definite about that. 827 00:43:49,295 --> 00:43:52,131 But she also used to proofread my articles for me. 828 00:43:52,339 --> 00:43:56,093 And I wrote an article for "playboy" about serpico. 829 00:43:56,302 --> 00:43:59,096 And when she read that, she told her friend 830 00:43:59,305 --> 00:44:01,682 she's gonna trick me into fathering the child. 831 00:44:01,890 --> 00:44:03,392 She doesn't need my permission. 832 00:44:03,601 --> 00:44:07,605 And so that's how my son was conceived. 833 00:44:07,813 --> 00:44:11,108 Then she said, "if you wanna see your son, 834 00:44:11,317 --> 00:44:13,277 you have to stay in a relationship with me. 835 00:44:13,485 --> 00:44:14,987 But if you break up with me, 836 00:44:15,195 --> 00:44:17,489 I know all the things that a woman can do to a man." 837 00:44:17,656 --> 00:44:20,701 You know, she read all my articles. She saW my talk shoWs. 838 00:44:20,909 --> 00:44:22,637 <i>She said, "1 know all the things a woman can do to a man,</i> 839 00:44:22,661 --> 00:44:23,996 and I'll do 'em to you." 840 00:44:24,204 --> 00:44:26,624 So, um, that's what i had to deal with. 841 00:44:26,832 --> 00:44:29,084 Everything that I had been raising awareness about 842 00:44:29,293 --> 00:44:31,754 for the previous 17 years, 843 00:44:31,962 --> 00:44:35,716 she combined into one thing for me to live through. 844 00:44:35,924 --> 00:44:37,676 It's really ironic. 845 00:44:40,679 --> 00:44:43,515 For the first... 846 00:44:43,724 --> 00:44:46,769 Five to seven years, I guess, 847 00:44:46,977 --> 00:44:50,189 we Would see each other four times a day for exchanges. 848 00:44:50,397 --> 00:44:52,107 On average, every single day 849 00:44:52,316 --> 00:44:54,443 I had to deal