Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere

that he expects to be in a relationship 641 00:29:39,027 --> 00:29:41,654 in which there's one-way monogamy, as he calls it. 642 00:29:41,738 --> 00:29:44,115 He's allowed to basically pursue other relationships… 643 00:29:44,199 --> 00:29:47,076 -[Angie] So, our open relationship? -Mm-hmm. But you're not. 644 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:48,661 [Angie] The women that he sleeps with, 645 00:29:48,745 --> 00:29:52,040 he's just gonna be with them for a night or so or whatever, 646 00:29:52,123 --> 00:29:54,834 but I don't… I don't think he sees me that way because I… 647 00:29:54,918 --> 00:29:57,712 There is a reason why I've stayed so long with him. 648 00:29:57,796 --> 00:30:00,715 -I don't wanna mix things up between you. -Yeah. 649 00:30:00,799 --> 00:30:03,301 But we were talking about, in the future, maybe there's a world 650 00:30:03,384 --> 00:30:05,595 where you would have more than one wife, right? 651 00:30:05,678 --> 00:30:06,596 She understands that. 652 00:30:06,679 --> 00:30:09,349 She knows that that could potentially come down in the future. 653 00:30:09,432 --> 00:30:10,850 What do you say about that? 654 00:30:11,351 --> 00:30:13,603 Uh, I don't know. 655 00:30:13,686 --> 00:30:16,105 I mean, he has said that in the past. 656 00:30:16,189 --> 00:30:19,025 Uh, I think when… I'll see when it happens. 657 00:30:19,108 --> 00:30:22,403 Like, I don't know how that will work. The thing is that I think-- 658 00:30:22,487 --> 00:30:26,658 But it's not gonna be anytime soon because I'm just so focused on working. 659 00:30:26,741 --> 00:30:28,201 -But it could happen? -It could. 660 00:30:28,284 --> 00:30:30,286 You can kick it down the road only so long. 661 00:30:30,370 --> 00:30:34,249 She's put two years into a relationship. If that's your long-term plan, 662 00:30:34,332 --> 00:30:36,918 at some point, those two realities will collide. 663 00:30:37,001 --> 00:30:39,212 That's a bridge we'll cross when we get there. Now-- 664 00:30:39,295 --> 00:30:40,964 What does that mean? That's so avoidant. 665 00:30:41,047 --> 00:30:43,424 -It's something… You never know, man. -It's just-- 666 00:30:43,508 --> 00:30:45,343 You can always change your mind down the road. 667 00:30:45,426 --> 00:30:47,846 Who knows? Maybe I'll say I only wanna be with one girl 668 00:30:47,929 --> 00:30:49,097 'cause two would be too tough. 669 00:30:49,180 --> 00:30:51,057 You've backtracked on that already? 670 00:30:51,641 --> 00:30:54,310 Some people in this part of the culture, right, 671 00:30:54,394 --> 00:30:57,689 who advocates for the idea of the 1% male, that ultimate masculine… 672 00:30:57,772 --> 00:30:59,566 -Can you take him into the room? -Sure. 673 00:30:59,649 --> 00:31:01,609 -That he's some-- -Frank, go with her. Sorry. 674 00:31:01,693 --> 00:31:04,362 Also, I need… If you could clean up the room too. 675 00:31:04,445 --> 00:31:06,364 -Yeah. -I need some help, yeah, with that. 676 00:31:07,323 --> 00:31:09,659 Was that okay, by the way? I always feel weird like… 677 00:31:09,742 --> 00:31:11,536 -No. It's cool. -It's awkward, though. 678 00:31:11,619 --> 00:31:13,997 -No. I-- -What did you feel? It felt awkward. 679 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,833 No, not at all. No. Angie, like… She's with me-- 680 00:31:16,916 --> 00:31:19,544 I don't think she's as on board as you are. 681 00:31:20,336 --> 00:31:23,339 -[chuckles] On board with what? -[Louis] You know what. 682 00:31:23,423 --> 00:31:27,635 -Just the idea of other ladies. -No, we've had these discussions. 683 00:31:27,719 --> 00:31:29,596 -I saw a little bit of pain in her. -No. 684 00:31:29,679 --> 00:31:30,972 -No, definitely. -No. 685 00:31:31,055 --> 00:31:32,056 -Yes. -No. 686 00:31:32,140 --> 00:31:34,225 -Definitely. Yeah. -No, no. She's fine. 687 00:31:34,309 --> 00:31:37,687 You don't think if I said to her, "You would have Myron all to yourself, 688 00:31:37,770 --> 00:31:38,980 would you rather have that?" 689 00:31:39,063 --> 00:31:41,190 You don't think she would say, "100%, of course"? 690 00:31:41,274 --> 00:31:43,860 She'd say, "Whatever makes him happy." That's what she would say. 691 00:31:43,943 --> 00:31:47,864 You know, the time I do have, I spend with her if I'm with any woman. 692 00:31:47,947 --> 00:31:49,657 [intense music playing] 693 00:32:01,002 --> 00:32:03,004 Is that open? You've locked it. 694 00:32:03,087 --> 00:32:04,297 No, I didn't. 695 00:32:06,925 --> 00:32:08,259 -Thank you. -Yeah, no. 696 00:32:08,343 --> 00:32:10,094 I wasn't fucking with you, though. 697 00:32:10,803 --> 00:32:13,556 [Louis] I'd been hoping to understand a little more about Justin 698 00:32:14,641 --> 00:32:17,435 and how he came to believe what he believed. 699 00:32:17,518 --> 00:32:21,773 [Justin] I think a lot of people assume that I'm unhappy and I'll never know love. 700 00:32:21,856 --> 00:32:25,401 -[Louis] Why would they assume that? -'Cause of my views or sexual preference. 701 00:32:25,485 --> 00:32:27,862 If me and my wife have a bunch o