The Secret

486 00:32:31,993 --> 00:32:37,390 GUESS WHAT -- IT'LL BE THERE EACH DAY YOU GO OUT DREADING THE BILL. 487 00:32:37,433 --> 00:32:39,261 YOU'RE NEVER EXPECTING ANYTHING GREAT. 488 00:32:39,305 --> 00:32:40,610 YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT DEBT. 489 00:32:40,654 --> 00:32:42,569 YOU'RE EXPECTING DEBT. 490 00:32:42,612 --> 00:32:46,051 SO DEBT MUST SHOW UP SO YOU WON'T THINK YOU'RE CRAZY. 491 00:32:46,094 --> 00:32:48,879 AND EVERY DAY, YOU CONFIRM YOUR THOUGHT. 492 00:32:48,923 --> 00:32:51,578 "IS DEBT GONNA BE THERE?" YES, DEBT'S THERE. 493 00:32:51,621 --> 00:32:54,537 "IS DEBT GONNA BE THERE?" YES, DEBT'S THERE. WHY? 494 00:32:54,581 --> 00:33:00,326 BECAUSE YOU EXPECTED DEBT TO BE THERE, SO IT SHOWED UP BECAUSE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IS ALWAYS 495 00:33:00,369 --> 00:33:02,023 BEING OBEDIENT TO YOUR THOUGHTS. 496 00:33:02,676 --> 00:33:05,461 DO YOURSELF A FAVOR -- EXPECT A CHECK. 497 00:33:05,505 --> 00:33:09,683 >> MOST PEOPLE LOOK AT THEIR CURRENT STATE OF AFFAIRS, AND THEY SAY, "THIS IS WHO I AM." 498 00:33:09,726 --> 00:33:13,469 THAT'S NOT WHO YOU ARE -- THAT'S WHO YOU WERE. 499 00:33:13,513 --> 00:33:17,038 YOU SEE, IF YOU LOOK AT YOUR CURRENT STATE OF AFFAIRS RIGHT NOW -- LET'S SAY, FOR INSTANCE, 500 00:33:17,082 --> 00:33:21,216 THAT YOU DON'T HAVE A LOT OF MONEY IN YOUR BANK ACCOUNT OR YOU DON'T HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP 501 00:33:21,260 --> 00:33:24,698 THAT YOU WANT OR YOUR HEALTH AND FITNESS ISN'T UP TO PAR -- THAT'S NOT WHO YOU ARE. 502 00:33:24,741 --> 00:33:28,093 THAT'S THE RESIDUAL OUTCOME OF YOUR PAST THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS. 503 00:33:28,136 --> 00:33:32,662 SO WE'RE CONSTANTLY LIVING IN THIS RESIDUAL, IF YOU WILL, OF THE THOUGHTS AND THE ACTIONS 504 00:33:32,706 --> 00:33:34,925 WE'VE TAKEN IN THE PAST. 505 00:33:34,969 --> 00:33:38,103 WHEN YOU LOOK AT YOUR CURRENT STATE OF AFFAIRS AND DEFINE YOURSELF BY THAT, THEN YOU DOOM 506 00:33:38,146 --> 00:33:47,808 YOURSELF TO HAVE NOTHING MORE THAN THE SAME IN THE FUTURE. 507 00:33:47,851 --> 00:33:51,551 >> OKAY, WHAT CAN YOU DO RIGHT NOW TO BEGIN TO TURN YOUR LIFE AROUND? 508 00:33:51,594 --> 00:33:58,688 I'LL TELL YOU TWO OR THREE THINGS.LL YOU TWO OR THREE START MAKING A LIST OF THINGS TO 509 00:33:58,732 --> 00:34:00,038 BE GRATEFUL FOR. 510 00:34:00,081 --> 00:34:02,562 START WITH THAT, BECAUSE THIS SHIFTS YOUR ENERGY. 511 00:34:02,605 --> 00:34:04,999 IT STARTS TO SHIFT YOUR THINKING. 512 00:34:05,043 --> 00:34:09,569 WHERE, BEFORE THIS EXERCISE, YOU MIGHT BE FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE AND YOU MIGHT BE 513 00:34:09,612 --> 00:34:13,616 FOCUSING ON YOUR COMPLAINTS AND YOU MIGHT BE FOCUSING ON WHATEVER THE PROBLEMS ARE, WHEN 514 00:34:13,659 --> 00:34:16,445 YOU DO THIS EXERCISE, YOU START TO GO IN A DIFFERENT DIRECTION. 515 00:34:16,489 --> 00:34:20,449 YOU START TO BE GRATEFUL FOR ALL THE THINGS THAT YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT. 516 00:34:20,493 --> 00:34:24,192 >> GRATITUDE IS ABSOLUTELY THE WAY TO BRING MORE INTO YOUR LIFE. 517 00:34:24,235 --> 00:34:28,327 >> EVERY MAN KNOWS THAT, WHEN HIS WIFE'S APPRECIATING HIM FOR THE LITTLE THINGS HE DOES, WHAT 518 00:34:28,370 --> 00:34:29,241 DOES HE WANT TO DO? 519 00:34:29,284 --> 00:34:30,284 HE WANTS TO DO MORE. 520 00:34:30,329 --> 00:34:31,895 IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT APPRECIATION. 521 00:34:31,938 --> 00:34:32,983 IT PULLS THINGS IN. 522 00:34:33,027 --> 00:34:35,203 IT ATTRACTS SUPPORT. 523 00:34:35,246 --> 00:34:38,859 >> I'VE SAID FOR MANY YEARS THAT WHATEVER WE THINK ABOUT AND THANK ABOUT, WE BRING ABOUT. 524 00:34:38,902 --> 00:34:41,469 >> BECAUSE THAT'S THAT FEELING THAT YOU HAVE TO HAVE, YOU KNOW. 525 00:34:41,514 --> 00:34:46,127 AND SO, FOR ME, IT'S BEEN SUCH A POWERFUL EXERCISE EVERY MORNING TO GET UP AND SAY, 526 00:34:46,170 --> 00:34:47,563 "THANK YOU." 527 00:34:47,607 --> 00:34:49,826 EVERY MORNING WHEN MY FEET HIT THE FLOOR, "THANK YOU." 528 00:34:49,870 --> 00:34:53,178 AND THEN I START RUNNING THROUGH WHAT I'M GRATEFUL FOR AS I'M GOING TO BRUSH MY TEETH AND DO 529 00:34:53,221 --> 00:34:55,397 THE THINGS I DO IN THE MORNING. 530 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:59,140 AND I'M NOT JUST THINKING ABOUT THEM AND DOING SOME ROTE ROUTINE, BUT I'M PUTTING IT OUT 531 00:34:59,184 --> 00:35:02,143 THERE, AND I'M FEELING THE FEELINGS OF GRATITUDE. 532 00:35:02,187 --> 00:35:06,278 >> BECAUSE, AS SOON AS YOU START TO FEEL DIFFERENTLY ABOUT WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE, YOU WILL START 533 00:35:06,321 --> 00:35:09,977 TO ATTRACT MORE OF THE GOOD THINGS, MORE OF THE THINGS YOU CAN BE GRATEFUL FOR. 534 00:35:10,020 --> 00:35:12,719 BECAUSE YOU CAN LOOK AROUND AND SAY, "WELL, LOOK, I DON'T HAVE THE CAR I WANT. 535 00:35:12,762 --> 00:35:13,676 I DON'T HAVE THE HOUSE I WANT. 536 00:35:13,720 --> 00:35:14,677 I DON'T HAVE THE HEALTH I WANT. 537 00:35:14,721 --> 00:35:15,809 I DON'T HAVE THE SPOUSE I WANT." 538 00:35:15,852 --> 00:35:16,940 WHOA, BACK UP. BACK UP. 539 00:35:16,984 --> 00:35:18,638 THOSE ARE ALL THE THINGS YOU DON'T WANT. 540 00:35:18,681 --> 00:35:22,685 FOCUS ON WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE THAT YOU'RE GRATEFUL F