The Forge

00:36:51,709 --> 00:36:53,878 That's the kind of man I want to be. 736 00:37:00,134 --> 00:37:01,260 I'll tell you what. 737 00:37:04,055 --> 00:37:05,306 If you're interested, 738 00:37:05,973 --> 00:37:07,350 join me this Saturday. 739 00:37:08,434 --> 00:37:10,560 My church has an outreach downtown. 740 00:37:10,561 --> 00:37:12,354 Every month, we get together 741 00:37:12,355 --> 00:37:15,358 and we give out food to people who are struggling. 742 00:37:16,484 --> 00:37:17,984 We usually start at 9:00. 743 00:37:17,985 --> 00:37:19,736 You do this? 744 00:37:19,737 --> 00:37:22,822 Every month. We help sponsor it. 745 00:37:22,823 --> 00:37:24,158 Come on, man. 746 00:37:24,784 --> 00:37:27,328 Hey, if you'd like, I'll pick you up. 747 00:37:30,122 --> 00:37:31,539 Yeah. I'm down. 748 00:37:31,540 --> 00:37:33,292 All right. [LAUGHS] 749 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:41,967 [CHRISTIAN HIP-HOP MUSIC PLAYING] 750 00:37:41,968 --> 00:37:43,052 [INAUDIBLE] 751 00:38:39,191 --> 00:38:40,860 Hey, you okay? 752 00:38:41,736 --> 00:38:43,029 Yeah. I, uh... 753 00:38:43,821 --> 00:38:45,572 I just never did anything like this before. 754 00:38:45,573 --> 00:38:47,157 - [JOSHUA LAUGHS] - Well, you did good. 755 00:38:47,158 --> 00:38:48,826 A lot of people got helped today. 756 00:38:50,327 --> 00:38:53,122 Isaiah, you want to join us for dinner? 757 00:38:53,664 --> 00:38:54,706 It's my turn to cook. 758 00:38:54,707 --> 00:38:57,500 I'm not as good as Janelle, but it shouldn't be too bad. 759 00:38:57,501 --> 00:39:00,337 Don't believe that. He's very good. 760 00:39:01,088 --> 00:39:03,882 - Hey, yeah, I'm down. - Well, you guys wait here. 761 00:39:03,883 --> 00:39:05,968 I'll get the car and we'll head to the house. 762 00:39:15,561 --> 00:39:17,437 JANELLE: Sometimes being the president 763 00:39:17,438 --> 00:39:20,148 means business calls on the weekend. 764 00:39:20,149 --> 00:39:21,650 No, I understand. 765 00:39:22,109 --> 00:39:23,694 Hey, who's this? 766 00:39:25,071 --> 00:39:27,322 That is our son Jalen. 767 00:39:27,323 --> 00:39:29,365 Oh, what? I didn't know you had a son. 768 00:39:29,366 --> 00:39:30,493 I mean, where's he at? 769 00:39:32,703 --> 00:39:34,246 Jalen died at 17. 770 00:39:40,961 --> 00:39:42,003 Oh, I'm... 771 00:39:42,004 --> 00:39:44,507 I'm sorry. I... I didn't realize. 772 00:39:45,007 --> 00:39:46,383 It's okay, Isaiah. 773 00:39:47,384 --> 00:39:50,596 When Jalen was growing up, 774 00:39:52,223 --> 00:39:57,061 Joshua was so driven in business to be a success. 775 00:39:58,104 --> 00:39:59,939 And it tested our marriage. 776 00:40:01,607 --> 00:40:06,236 One evening, Jalen went to ride with his friends to a party, 777 00:40:06,237 --> 00:40:09,739 and a drunk driver ran a red light 778 00:40:09,740 --> 00:40:11,659 and hit them on his side. 779 00:40:14,495 --> 00:40:17,123 We never got to say goodbye. 780 00:40:18,165 --> 00:40:19,458 For a while, 781 00:40:20,876 --> 00:40:25,089 Joshua blamed everybody, even me. 782 00:40:26,966 --> 00:40:29,593 It almost ended our marriage. 783 00:40:31,887 --> 00:40:33,889 One of the older men in our church, 784 00:40:34,598 --> 00:40:38,269 a mechanic, reached out to Joshua 785 00:40:39,645 --> 00:40:41,647 and started meeting with him. 786 00:40:43,482 --> 00:40:45,233 And he helped Joshua 787 00:40:45,234 --> 00:40:50,697 reshape his entire view of life and faith 788 00:40:50,698 --> 00:40:52,491 according to the Bible. 789 00:40:53,951 --> 00:40:56,327 And that's when I saw my husband 790 00:40:56,328 --> 00:40:59,080 become a disciple of Jesus Christ. 791 00:40:59,081 --> 00:41:00,708 It changed him. 792 00:41:02,501 --> 00:41:05,795 So, we don't just call ourselves Christians. 793 00:41:05,796 --> 00:41:07,965 We are devoted to Jesus. 794 00:41:11,594 --> 00:41:15,139 And we will do anything He calls us to do. 795 00:41:40,706 --> 00:41:42,040 "For all have sinned 796 00:41:42,041 --> 00:41:44,210 "and fall short of the glory of God. 797 00:41:45,544 --> 00:41:48,838 "But God demonstrates His own love for us in this... 798 00:41:48,839 --> 00:41:52,343 "while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 799 00:41:54,929 --> 00:41:57,056 "For the wages of sin is death, 800 00:41:58,140 --> 00:42:00,225 "but the gift of God is eternal life 801 00:42:00,226 --> 00:42:02,228 "in Christ Jesus our Lord. 802 00:42:03,771 --> 00:42:06,732 "If you declare with your mouth 'Jesus is Lord' 803 00:42:07,399 --> 00:42:08,900 "and believe in your heart 804 00:42:08,901 --> 00:42:10,903 "that God raised him from the dead, 805 00:42:11,654 --> 00:42:13,280 "you will be saved. 806 00:42:14,573 --> 00:42:17,450 "For it is with your heart that you believe, 807 00:42:17,451 --> 00:42:19,035 "and it is with you